Newbies, and also intermediate players at BDSM can frequently get confused between punishment and sadomasochism. Since there is exactly the same base of discomfort in punishment and sadomasochism, there was one major distinction.
Punishment or control will not constantly result in an orgasm, at the very least for the receiver. Usually the punisher, principal, or master, may be the one that extends to be released therefore the receiver must watch or be either penalized without method of launch. More